James Bondage - Chronicles of a sex addict

If you think getting naked and fucking a chick is what she means by intimacy, your a  dufus.   When a woman talks about intimacy she’s talking about a mental connection that goes deeper then your dick in a two dollar whore.   That deeper mental connection happens when you decide to actually care about what the other is thinking, being in tune both when playing around and fucking like mad.  A good example of getting intimate is the very way you fuck.   For a lot of guys and girls hopping on, getting down and just going at it is good fucking.  It may be, but when you want to make love to a girl, that just doesn’t cut it.  You’ve got to know how to make love to a woman if you really want to keep her happy and wet fuck after fuck.  

It’s not entirely your fault, it’s a lot of work and effort to know a woman deeply and frankly, sometimes very frustrating, but you cannot make love to a woman until you can feel her rythem.  The begining of this can be easier then you think.  Firstly, when you start up, get to making out… make out, with passion..   don’t just kiss her and start taking off her clothes…  thats for a porn movie.   Make out for a good five min, even do a bit of on clothes excercises.   When you start taking things off do it with a tease and take your time, don’t just stand up and strip like the two of you are sprinting to naked.  

Once your both ready for lift off, don’t just hold the bitch down and jack hammer her… at least, not yet!  Close your eyes or look into hers, put yourself in and hold her still with your hands on her ass or hips and press your body tight to hers, don’t let her move for a moment.  This will let her know your going to lead, she will likly be exited by this and happy to follow.   So start humpping, and no, thats not what I mean.   Start moving back and forth with her, not pulling out and putting in, but with her, make a few strokes together to get in sync with her so she can feel your swing, length and speed.  Kinda like dancing… then after a few sways and she’s totally in sync with you, and when your ready just invert your motion and she’ll be swinging opposite you, this should be done slowly so you can really build it up.  Besides, if you start fast you’ll blow before she’s even excited.    Starting out slow isn’t very enjoyable for most men but women require more stimulation to get off, so guys, just take your time… it’s worth it.  

Inverting the motion like this makes for a dramatic explotion of stimulation for her, as you move with her your prick should be rubbing things in there which will get her warmed up but once you change up and it comes out it’s a shock to her and the next thrust in is explosive.  Don’t forget to take the rythem up faster and faster, but keep a good rythem.  If you have trouble being consistant in your rythem with her and things slip out, try playing some ramp up music.   An oldie but goodie for getting use to this is Ravel’s Bolero. It’ll teach you how to slowly ramp up and fuck in sync better then just about any other piece of music out there…oh, and it’s about 13 minutes long with a climax.   Oh, btw, it wouldn’t hurt to toke it up before trying some of these manouvers, it’ll help you focus and stay in the moment.

I got the best gift for Christmas, in the form of a gorgeous Thai girl that blew me and my mind. I don’t think I could ever tell this story as magically as it happened so I’ll save this story for just myself.

I was dead tired after last nights hunt, got four numbers 3 names and two plans. First call, looking for KBA, she was mine and I knew it before we even spoke. So I’m txting…, she’s free for dinner. On the spot 10 min early and dressed to undress with her. She’s working on Sunday night helping a friend. Student of a local college preparing to be a teacher at the same school. She’s trying to get her friends project ready for a review, but we have to eat now,… not 15 min into dinner and she breaks it in gently that she has to get back to the project after dinner… SHIT. Can’t delay the plan any longer my chips are piling up… it’s a nice stacked cylinder under the table and she’s obviously looking for an out. 5min. I got it….

We finish dinner, was sooo goood. My Sake has helped me with the plan, we’re going to her school, I’m the new intern and we’re officially a team to get this done… tonight, early enough for us to catch some drinks.

Cut, cut, snip, snip we’re sewing it up and off to Tonic, a dark usually scarcely crowded lounge near by the Casino. I’ll have a double WildT with coke and she’s sipping a martini. Guy next to me at the bar warns me about the bird…. I laugh… The turkey and I go way back.

Maybe an hour…, prob not, we’re headed back to my place and it’s cold tonight… her hand in mine our arms are intertwined and the coats are warming up with all the shoulder rubbing. Back at my place, we light up the box, tune in a movie… start getting comfortable… movie is … who cares, we’re kissing… rubbing, fondling and so hungry. Movie goes to music, clothes go to floor, cover go on floor, sheet goes up in the air and so do her legs, pants are off. Bra was undone before we got to the bar and her top was gone before we got the music on. She tastes sooo good.

She’s a girl that follows her heart and I love a girl like this. Most all have a policy, a rule, a guide line, a 3 date minimum or something. Those girls are always the most fun… I am the pleasure delayer and even worse… I respect her wishes. Most dates go back to someones place for night cap or movie…, this is the invitation. If she’s not interested, she’s not that interested in you. When she’s in, she on, it’s just a few movies to be comfy, cuddle up, take off the shoes, get under a sheet or throw blanket and and talk or watch depending on the contract. She has given you the terms and you have accepted with a signature of test. She is testing you… You’ll probably kiss, then kiss some more. This is what you both want, and she may really be into it. Wait…. this is a test and you are under contract. The test of loyalty it now in play. You I hope are being the gentleman and not making any fast moves after all ….she told you,.. I have a policy… 3 date policy.. or whatever. So she’s going to make the move., she will… if she doesn’t. You need to work on your kissing, check your BO or spruce up your place.
When she makes the move,.. it’s usually a jeans groin rub… hand, leg, they or breast. I call it KFC time cause it’s all in the buck at she is Kissing Fuck Calling it. If you let her… your a putts. You have failed. She told you the rules and yes, she is the one breaking her rule, but your the guy that agreed to the rule and now your not respecting it.

The only way to win is to keep to the contract. Stop her… with a smooth sincere tact. Pull her hand away, push her to the side a bit or get her out of her rub move. She’ll be like…’Whats up’..?? She will be sooo confused, she knows you want her…but because she is a girl she will suddenly have a huge wave of self doubt her like a sumo wrestler.
This is where you show her the contract… remember… you said you wanted to wait… …. you got her, and you just won. You’ll get points, props, respect for respecting her and she’ll now have to verbally break the contract. What is said in words, can only be undone in words… and vice versa.

She may or may not… if not, it’s a FFL for sure, otherwise….she’ll make up some shit about her always following the rule but you are this incredible exception…. whatever. You passed. Cash in, play some more, watch out for the cameras and don’t make her a habit… unless… She is ‘truly awesome’.

KBA and I … well, she wasn’t even testing me, we had both agreed to all terms and conditions nonverbally and the contracts were signed… We’re at the Casino and all sorts of sins are about to be committed. The tables were open all night and I played the slots for hours….. hours. She was good… too good, this girl has got game. She sucked my cock like a pro and knew exactly how to ride this cowboy. Four condoms later we are wrapped up in knots still kissing, caressing and touching anything wet as we are so thirsty. JD and coke to the call keeps us in tune for another round. I’ll sleep well tonight I say at 5am trying to stop my heart from exploding out of my chest, I’ve cum again and now they are so intense I’m almost screaming… louder then her.

Get Laid the easy way…